PREPARING FOR THE
LABOUR MARKET
EDOKA PETER-PAUL
Writer, Motivational Speaker, Founder of
Pillarious Foundation
PHASE I:
KNOW WHAT YOU STUDIED
INTRODUCTION
Anyone can wake from whatever sleep
to seek employment for the sake of making earns meet. Everyone on the face of the earth has the
obligation to be gainfully employed and make a living from a particular job or
craft or skill. But this is not what we see today. There are those who don’t
have any skill or job or are engaged in any craft, but are seriously wishing to
make a living by all means – even if it’s through dubious means.
We are lucky to be in a state of
the nation when nothing much is coming from the government and the institutions
that are suppose to put some infrastructures in place for easy growth of human
empowerment. I said we are lucky because, without what we thought should
ordinarily be in place, we are forced to be creative and inventive at craving
means of survival; but again, the dubious means too are been invented by those
with such minds.
We are here today because we
sincerely want to learn how we can be prepared for the labour market, get a
good job and or start a business. We have a mind that is willing to strive for
excellence and goodness, a mind that is ready to start the journey that at
terminus, it will be recorded that it has acquire perfection. This should be
our collective quest as a community and as like-minds that belong to one
generation and that will do anything to bring growth and development to the
human race.
Here however, we will see how to
prepare for the labour market for those who desire to work for someone; we will
also see how to start a business or a career and even how to choose a vocation,
for those who feel the call to serve in the hospital of human spirituality.
These are areas where each and every one of us must belong to either one or
more of it. And it is not limited, for there are those who are walking on these
whole paths: they have a career, a business, a job and are involve in the
ministration of God’s word too.
There are questions that we must
answer, as individuals and as a body. These questions are meant to help us
put-on our thinking cap-as it’s been said, and to help us come to terms with
the truth which some of us have been avoiding for long. The truth, according to
the Bible, is capable of setting us free from whatever captivity we may find
ourselves.
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How many are graduates here?
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How many need job?
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How
many wish to start a business/career?
WHAT DID YOU STUDY IN SCHOOL?
For those who are graduates, what
did you study in school? Was it the course you desired that was giving to you?
If your answer is NO, what have you been dong with what you studied? And if
your answer is YES, what have you done with what you studied?
Before ever you entered into the
university or any other higher institution, you havd a desire, a wish to study
a particular course. Why did you choose that course? It’s because you had the
passion and sincere wish to pursue a career in that area of study, a profession
that you believe suits you. You must have mapped out for yourself
how you will succeed eventually when you leave school. You must have been
dreaming the kind of huge influence you will be in the society and among family
and friends.
I would love you to take your mind
back to when you were much younger and have dreams and desires and wishes. If
you have the power, will you not bring back those days? If you can, will you
not be happier seeing yourself in the kind of life you desire or wish to live?
You would do all you can to put yourself
back in that dream-land, where you live the kind of life you want and express
yourself the way you want. But the good news is that: YOU CAN!
You can choose to use the tool
given to you by education to succeed, you can choose to use the tool given to
you at creation to succeed, and you can also choose to use the both tools to
succeed; this in fact is what we preach at Pillarious Foundation: to use both
your educational experience and your desire – when you channel these two towards
your chosen path, success will chase you like the sun flower follows the
movement of the sun.
You that was given your desired
course to study in school, it means you have spent the last four or more years
of your life in the area and field you wish to earn a living and make a life.
The question is: how sincere are you in the utilization of that opportunity and
grace and luck. It means you must be in a better position to succeeding in life
than those who left school and start the pursuit of a career that has nothing
to do with what they studied in school.
For you that studied for four or
more years, the course that was forced on you by the school because you could
not pass the cut-off mark meant for the course you desired to study, what have
you been doing with what you were given? You must find a way to make this
knowledge useful, because the truth is: no knowledge is a waste. Whatever you
must have been thought, whatever you must have been made to study, there are
areas in life – in the field – that this knowledge are needed and required for
positive change and lasting success.
There are some who entered into
school to study any course that was given them. From the beginning they said to
themselves: “I will study anything in school.” And eventually the school gave
them a course and they jump at it and went with the flow in school by studying
that course for four or more years. Such persons come out of school the same
way they entered years ago; and when you ask them: “what kind of job do you
want?” they will answer: “any kind job I will do.” Such person has lost the
grip on success, because success needs planning and chasing. The same time you
spend planning on how to chase and woo and win that pretty lady and handsome
guy is the same way you need to plan on how to chase and woo and win success.
If back then you don’t have choice
at what to study in school, now you must make a choice on been successful or a
perpetual failure. This choice you must make as you are no longer living a
student life on campus, but a life where your integrity is been measured by the
amount of productivity and excellence you exhibit in your area of expertise.
The world and your generation are watching and waiting for you to make your own
contribution towards collective success, and this obviously should be a desire
from you, and not a force, like back then when you were much younger and free
and with little or no responsibilities and without much choice too.
This is not the time when your
parents and friends and teachers and even the environment makes decision for
you. This is the time when you must stand on your feet and see the future for
yourself. You must choose the path or paths that will lead you to where you
ultimately would love to go and remain. You must choose your career, your job,
your partner in terms of relationship and your must choose wisely too. Your
choice must be driven by what comes from your inside and that reflects in the
outside. You must choose!
Your education and your environment
and those who had been influencing you have made their marks on your heart and
should be allowed to go. This is the time for yourself alone. Time to use all
the teaching of your friends and teachers and parents and environment to grow
towards better and brighter tomorrow.
CONCLUSION
Whatever you studied in school is
meant to sharpen your mind and expose you to the strategies of becoming a
success in whatever career or job you choose.
And what
you studied in school does not put a rule on you that you have to live by it or
with it before you succeed in life. Your education is a tool in your hand to be
use to achieve great success. Thus in
the midst of seeking answers to your purpose in life via lack of gainful
employment or positive activity, you must know that you have, aside your
degree, all that it takes to succeed in life. And these things are what you
will see in the next Phase of this presentation!
PHASE II:
YOUR TALENT/ YOUR INTEREST
INTRODUCTION
The reason why you desired to study
a particular course when you were much younger is the reason why you should
succeed today. You desired a course because you have confidence that you will
love to do a related job with that specific course. That feeling is either your
TALENTs or your INTERESTs. Know the difference today:-
WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO –TALENTS
Some
things come naturally to you. You must be very attentive to know what you are
born with or what you are born to be. Sometimes too, it takes the help of
others, especially experts, to help discover for you, what you have and what
you need to work at becoming. Your talent: is your ability to do something with ease and
joy and the willingness to learn and grow on it.
You
might have been living like me: way back I thought I was just doing what I love
to do-to write, to speak, to encourage, to sing, to act-Entertainment! These
are what I grew up with and are what I have been spending my nights and days
with.
You
must make a deliberate effort to know what you have inside and to know how to
put them to use. Knowing your talent(s) alone will not yield any fruit neither
will it produce fruits that will last. After discovering your talent, you must
continue in that striving-mode to also know where that gift is needed and how
to ‘sale’ it. You know the saying “By the labour of your hand you shall eat.”
This is to say, unless you put your talent to use, making a decent living will
either be difficult or you might just be ‘managing’ just to make earns meet.
When
you are doing what you love to do, you can be on it for hours without knowing
you have spent such amount of time. When you are engaged with doing ‘your
work’, you will be reminded to eat; because you will be so sucked in ‘your
stuff’ that only outside remainder will call your attention back to reality.
Your talent will be oozing out from the depth of you and its brilliant
brightness will shone all round you and you will be a light for the world.
I
think is good you know too that you can’t copy talent. You can't see talent in
someone else and say you want to copy; you would only be wasting your precious
time and delaying your destiny and putting hold to all you are meant to be and
to achieve on earth. You will only be adding troubles to the original troubles
that are mean for you. Because either you like it or not, you have your own
challenges and difficulties, different from everyone else under the sun.
You
need to identify your talent and put it to use, because you must belong to a
particular department in this ecological state that we are. In this life and on
this earth, everyone has a specific place where s/he belongs. And unless you
find that place and become active and useful there, you might find it difficult
to be fully happy; and growth will seem far from you.
WHAT YOU WANT TO DO – INTERESTS
We are often times interested in
things that are not good for us. We always find ourselves hungry for what is
not meant for us; that is our nature anyway-always going after what is not
meant for you or what is not good for you. The reason is because what we see is
what we want to have. But ideally, we should be drawn to what is ours, to what
we have inside us and what we are made with. We should be hungry to bring forth
what is hidden inside our being. We should spend quality time ‘digging’ that
treasure that has been deposited in us by the Creator at Creation Time.
Interests are what excite us, especially. They could be
persons, activities, jobs, career, relationship and even material things; but
they kept us on our feet and energizes us to strive at getting them to be with
us-often times at a very short moment-because what excite you today might not
give you same excitement tomorrow.
Whatever
interest you have concerning anything, your first question should be that: “for
how long will this ‘interest’ last?” whatever you desire to start should be
what will stand the taste of time and should be what will give you every reason
to work tirelessly to achieve. That ‘interest’ should and will always be the
fuel you need to continue in the path to positive success.
Imagine
you having ‘interest’ in your talents and abilities. Imagine you having
interest in what is inside you. Imagine you having interest in what the Creator
has given as a tool to success and to make great contributions to the
development of the human race; you will exile in it without having to ‘use your
head to make a passage through the wall.’ (My Proverb)
It
is not as if you should be blind to beautiful things or close your mind from
seeing success in what other persons are doing; it is just that you should be
challenged by the success of others and give yourself the needed boost to
discover your own very nature and talent and interest and ability. What you see
in others that excite you should make you find out what you have inside you
that will excite others and encourage others and motivate others. This is what
you should do with your life and your success and your career and your
relationship: To inspire others positively!
CONCLUSION
As
you are preparing for the labour market, it is important to note that the
market needs those that will help it to grow to greater heights. Employers are
looking for those who have potentials and talents and interest at what they are
‘selling’, so that they can make enormous chain. No one goes into business to
lose anyway.
For you to be
successful, you must remember to use the both tools: Talent and Interest. And
you must also seek engagement where your talent and desire and interest and
educational knowledge will be needed – because it is only there that you can be
relevant and useful, and you will also be on high demand.
It doesn't matter what you studied in school:
be it your desired course or not; what matters is you need to succeed in life
because you are meant to be a success-not just any how success, but huge
success. What you learnt back in school might not be what you will see in the
field as you enter into the labour market, but what you studied will definitely
be a tool that, if well utilize, will lead you to greatness; the application of
what you learnt in school is all that is needed to make you succeed in the
field, outside school.
At
Pillarious Foundation however, we preach Entrepreneurship. We encourage people
especially young ones to embrace the entrepreneur spirit that is hovering over
this great generation. We know how difficult it could be to start a business or
a company, but we also know how easy it is to success at this seemly difficult
task once your mind is set on it.
Challenges
are what makes you know how ‘rich’ you are in terms of ideas and creative
power. Unless you allow yourself to see challenges as stepping stone to
greatness, you will withdraw your positive intention and striving spirit each
time you meet with obstacles and challenges and conquerable tasks. Because most
things you see been difficult to achieve are actually meant to test you will
power to succeed, such that as you over-come one task, you are one step to
achieving your goal, and suddenly, another task surfaces. These are ultimate
designs of the Creator to see how sincere you are in your quest for positive
success and how genuine you will be at handling whatever that will be giving to
you-in terms of success.
We
all cannot work in the oil sector of the country’s economy, neither can all of
us work in the bank, or become teachers or business persons or politicians, or
musicians or doctors, etcetera. The Creator has assigned each and every one of us
to perform a specific task while you last on earth. You therefore cannot afford
to spend your life ‘living’ in another person’s dream or performing the duty of
another soul and leaving your own unattended to.
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